2014-03-12

A Retrospective on Romance Anime & Manga - Part 1


            I have always stated I am a sucker for the romantic stories.  I thought it would be an interesting exercise to going over as many as possible that I have watched to touch upon the basic premise of each and what stood out with each for me.  It came about from me contemplating ranking all of the anime I have ever watched, which is an incredibly daunting task, so I decided to scale it down a bit, bring it more into reality and do something similar with my favorite genre.  Also this is a nice little snap shot of a large amount of series for people to peruse over in an effort to find similar titles, which is always a problem.


            This 2007 theatrical movie by the same person who did Voices of a Distant Star is the most depressing movie I have ever seen.  It is the story about one losing the only love he ever had and struggling to try and reclaim it even after it is futile.  The movie is split up into 3 vignettes each showing different phases in the main characters life.  The first is him in middle school after having the only person he ever connected with move away.  Their absence makes their bond stronger and before he has to move even further away they plan to meet at her new town.  The journey to meet her becomes epic and lonely as a severe snow storm turns a 3 hour train trip into 7 or 8 hour journey of agony and sorrow.  The second story finds him near the end of his high school career and his final disconnection with the girl he loves.  The final story finds him a broken man, living in Tokyo; after he has come to terms with his lose.

            In terms of reality, this is one of the most realistic movies I have ever seen, anime or not.  Every single element in this production go to making it what it is, a moving and heart wrenching story of lost love.  I force people who don’t even like romance stories to watch this one, because it is so powerful of a story.  It is one of my favorite anime ever made.  As a side note, the American distribution of this movie has been stopped so what DVD’s are currently available will probably be the last until someone re-releases it.


Aa Megami Sama OAV

            This classic story deals with a lonely boy falling in love with an angel sent to earth and the limitations of her ability to return that love out of her duty.  She must decide between her job and angelic status or the love of the man she knew as a boy.

            While I tried to not select any harem anime (let’s admit it, there for the boys and aren’t about the romance anyways) I don’t consider this title to fall under that genre.  I don’t think there is ever really any choice to be made in any ones head of who will end up with whom at the end of this story.  While I have only watched a few episodes of the series I did watch all of the original OAV back in the mid 90’s.  One of the most striking scenes that I remember vividly to this day is of the main character working 22 hours a day in order to buy his love a ring, to symbolize his feelings for her and devotion to her as she makes her final decision.

            The OAV is dated but still conveys a strong sense of mystery and romantic ups and downs.  The TV series’ further flesh out the story and up-dates it a bit, both are worth watching.

 

            The ghost of a dead girl returns to ‘haunt’ the boy who loved her the most.  She needs him to gather their old friends to grant a wish for her so she can move on.  The years that have passed since her death have caused large gaps in the friends’ relationships with each other.

            This is a pretty depressing and tear jerking story of loss and pain.  There are some comedic parts but really, the last episode and a half all of the characters are balling their heads off.  The concept is done rather well.  A good chunk of the story deals with the protagonist trying to convince himself he’s not hallucinating and then convince his old friends the ghost is real…as he’s the only one who can see her.  Even at 13 episodes the series seemed a bit stretched out but they remade it into a theatrical movie that I have yet to see.

 

            This supernaturally bent drama has both a romantic story and a coming of age story.  The story is about a young girl and young woman, who switch ages, but not bodies, and have to come to terms with how dramatically their lives have changed while coming to terms with their hang ups involving the same man.  The girl yearns to be older so her brother no longer has to be responsible for her, so he can live his life for himself.  The woman has to come to terms with the same man who left her suddenly and without reason to return home after his parents passed away to take care of his sister.

            The supernatural aspect of this show is only the catalyst, the underlying set up, for the story.  The real story is about the small cast of characters overcoming their inhibitions and perceived limitations to grow.  I really enjoyed this airy story; it definitely brought me into a different place while I watched it.  While not totally a romance it is one of the best stories I have seen in the realism category, realism aside from the supernatural body switching thing.  Don’t worry about any hokey switched body gags; there is pretty much no humor in this series, it is straight drama.

 

            This is a rare series in the idea that it’s like the normal romance series but is more from the male perspective and not in a harem series sense.  This story follows the trials and tribulations between a small group of high school friends as they explore the finer points of relationships.  Through the ups and downs we see them all grow, learn and experience the life of a high school romance.

            This is a typical high school romance series, all be it more realistic than many.  My biggest hang up with this show was the art; some of the characters were drawn a bit oddly.  It was good though, not earth shaking, but worth the time.  You actually care for some of the characters and feel pain when they have to suffer and cheer for them to come out ahead.

            

            This short series deals with a shy and uncertain girl, in the near future, who has a problem with shorting out electronics when under emotional duress.  She moves to her Nth new school, in an attempt to hide her problem, and immediately draws the attention of the lone member of the science club, who is interested in studying her ability.  The girl is smitten with his boyish good looks and charm and soon yearns for a relationship with him instead of his project.  The boy, while wholly immersed in his research, does not understand her feelings right away, but when he does he has to protect her from the world around her.

            This is a quick, stereotypical high school romantic comedy.  Sure, it has a different bend to it with her weird power, but when you move that aside it is a generic romance.  This was a good series, just not for the romance.  The series was really good for the way it looked at our society in the next decade or so.  There seemed to be something missing as well, as there were characters that were introduced that really had nothing to do with the series…I wonder if there will be more?

 

            This is the story of a boy who thinks he’s smarter than everyone else because he reads obscure European existential literature.  When a classmate catches him being a pervert she begins to manipulate him for her own entertainment.  When the girl manipulating him convinces him to go out with the girl he has a crush on his world starts to crumble under paranoia of his perversions being exposed.

            This is a series that deals with insanity more than romance; romance is the catalyst for the insanity.  Manipulation, insanity, adolescent confusion…this series is a train wreck in slow motion when it comes to all 3 characters losing their grasp of reality.  Dark, sadistic and fun, this is not a feel good series by any stretch of the mean.  I’m waiting for a continuation of the story…which may be around the corner.  The manga may need to be read soon though.

 

            It is first off a science fiction film that explores ethical ideals and karma, but there is a strong secondary story dealing with the main character and one of her 2 best friends.  Half way through the series he confesses his love to her and she does everything in her power, she can travel through time, to stop him from confessing to her.  Her attempts are not so much out of not wanting to be with him, but more out of being afraid of ruining what they have together.  By the time she makes up her mind it might be too late to make things right.

            This is my number one favorite anime movie (even sits near the top of all movies for me) of all time, due to all of the aspects of the story, including the romance portion.  To me this is almost the perfect package and I have made many people from all walks of life view it.  If there is any movie anyone must see, it is this one, regardless.

 

            Following a traumatic accident that has left him an amnesiac, the main character moves away from home to attend college in Tokyo.  While there he begins to build new memories with the friends he has made and the girl he begins dating.  But always the specter of his past self continues to haunt him and strain the relationships his new self has created.

            This is a nice and mature story of adults in love.  The aspects presented with the main characters amnesia and his paranoia about what the rest of his life will bring adds a nice flare to this story of love that may not be forever.  This is the newest one on this list and as of its writing still has 3 episodes to go before its conclusion.


            This artistic and creative look at a high school romance is one of the most interesting series I have ever seen.  It follows the top girl in school as she meets the only rival she has ever know, a transfer student who beats her to be best in school, and through the rivalry they end up falling in love.  After they have fallen in love they must deal with all of the ups and downs in a normal relation ship, both internal and external problems, in order to either remain together and become stronger or part ways.  This series focuses almost exclusively around the two main characters, so much so that you may even forget about anything else unless it is thrust in your face.

            This is not only a well done romance it is also a meticulous exercise in the psychology and inner thoughts of teenage love, or just love in general.  The characters are more than human and have to deal with their short comings and how the things they do reflect upon themselves and their relationships with everyone around them.  This is one of my top 5 favorite romantic series’ even though the art is not the greatest, the story telling is superb and even after 26 episodes and the story wrapping up nicely I was very sad to say good bye to the characters.  Fortunately the story in the anime is only half of the story in the manga!




            This classic styled high school romance, the manga is from the early 90’s.  It follows a remedial high school student, in her senior year, as she finally confesses to the top student in the school but is rejected by him.  That night as her friends consol her, in the new house her father built, an earthquake destroys the house, due to shoddy construction.  Her father, a widower, and she are forced to move in with her father’s best friend from childhood, who ends up being her unrequited loves father.  Now she has to live under the same roof as the man she was ultimately rejected by.  She has to fight her own short comings to try and win his heart or convince herself that his heart is cold and his personality too conceited to bother with him anymore.

            First thought is, gee this sounds a little like Ranma ½, you’re only partially right.  This is more of a romantic odd couple as the two main characters are forced to live with each other through the remainder of high school and on into college.  Everyone, with the exception of the guy’s younger brother and the girl’s semi boyfriend, is pushing for the two to get together.  It’s a funny, sweet and nakedly honest one sided relationship series.  Will this lovable goofball be able to crack the iron clad exterior of the man she can not keep from her mind?  There’s a little bit of Lucille Ball in her too.

            Side note; the manga creator died before she was able to finish the series, which ran for the majority of the 90’s.  Her husband has pledged to have the anime end the way his wife was intending to end the manga.




            This light hearted high school romance has a supernatural bend to it.  It deals with the son of god, who lives like a normal human, in order to become a better God replacement, and the angel that was created to look after him, sorting through their feelings for each other.  Whew.  While the angel is madly in love with God’s son, he, on the other hand, considers her more like a sister and when a rival shows up that completely takes his attention from her, deep rooted issues well up to the surface.

            This short high school love story takes advantage of its super natural angle, by introducing some paranormal issues into the already strained relationship, including selective memory loss and the temptation of evil.  I enjoyed this quirky little series, more for the comedy than for the main characters.  In all actuality I didn’t care that much for the main characters, but the dramatic moments were quite moving.  I really enjoyed God and the rest of the Kamisama family, as they were a collection of odd balls, especially the youngest daughter who was almost gothic.  It is a nice series all in all, dragged a bit in the middle but was filled with many tender and tear jerking moments…the supernatural elements were done tastefully too.

 
Kimagure Orange Road

            KOR is one of the preeminent high school romance series.  It is the story of 3 friends, 1 boy and 2 girls, and the choices they have to make in regards to their relationship with each other as they develop.  I would not consider this series any where near a harem series, it is really about a complicated love triangle, with some external influences thrown in to make the pot stickier.

            I actually watched this series backwards...in a way.  My first introduction to the series is the last movie, which puts a nice tidy bow on the story when the characters are adults.  After that I watched the series.  This is an old, and dated (animation wise) story, but it is well done and there is a bit of supernatural humor and drama added in due to the boy of the trio having mystical genetic abilities.  This is a good series that show cases the trials and tribulations of misbegotten love while growing up and can interest the Ranma ½ fans as well.



            Known as Rumbling Hearts in America, this short TV series starts off as a high school romance but quickly turns into a mature adult drama about people having to cope with moving on.  The series deals with a core group of 4 friends, 2 male and 2 female, who have become close in their high school years.  One of the girls, shy and self conscious, has a crush on one of the boys.  They end up dating while the other girl, who also has a crush on him, casually interferes in their relationship.  During one such incident the girlfriend is gravely injured in a car accident and ends up in a coma.  Three years after the fact the boyfriend and the other girl are living together, while the other guy is in college and the girlfriend is still in a coma.  Lives are lived and everyone progresses until the girl comes out of her coma and still thinks it is 3 years ago.  In an effort to maintain her mental health the doctor orders everyone to pretend, for a while, that it is still 3 years ago.  Now everyone involved has to try and hide the fact that they have all changed, for the sake of one, while trying to maintain their real lives.  This causes much tension between everyone, especially the boyfriend and the other girl, as old feelings, and memories, come center stage.

            This is probably one of the most mature romance anime I have ever seen.  Not only is there the short TV series, but there is also an OAV set that is currently being released that continues the story.  The drama and tension is very thick in this series and is prone to make you cry (I came close a few times).  This series is very moody with a few breaks in the drama provided by 2 minor characters who work with the boyfriend.  They are also the main characters in a 1-shot OAV that is incredibly funny.  This is a great romance series that will definitely get to you and at the time of this writing I am eagerly awaiting the 4th OAV to drop too many months away.

 
           
            This is a series based on a manga by the creator of Suzuka.  The story in the anime deals with a boy who transfers from Hiroshima to Tokyo to chase after a girl he has fallen for who was living with his family in Hiroshima.  When he finds out the girl has a boyfriend he ends up dating another girl but still can’t get the one he chased all the way to Tokyo out of his mind.

            The anime is actually just a chunk of the manga, from actually the middle of the series.  While that is a bit odd they fill in the back story decently.  This series is still pretty banal and boring.  It’s a male geared high school romance.  The characters are all kind of idiots, especially the main lead.  The best part of this series happens near the end when the relationship with the replacement girlfriend crumbles and implodes!!  Actually, I rather loathe this anime and despise the manga…especially since I read the entire damn thing!!  Suzuka was much better.

  

            This short TV series deals with very touchy and taboo subjects; incest and school girl love.  It is the story of a man who goes through life uncaringly, so much so that he drives all of his girlfriends away due to his attitude.  One day he see’s a girl on her way to school on the train and instantly develops a deep rooted love for her, whether it is initially physical or just plutonic is never understood.  A chance encounter brings them together again and in a moment of weakness he breaks down in front of her and opens up his heart.  As they are about to part ways he finds out that this is his baby sister, who is moving in with him and his father in order to be closer to her school.  When the main character was younger, and his sister was just born, their parents separated and have not seen each other since.  Now with his baby sister, whom he has fallen in love with, living under the same roof as him, his internal conflict rages full bore.  He must wage a moralistic conflict with himself, resulting in him becoming increasingly cold to his sibling, until the point where it all explodes.

            Aside from the fact that this is a story about a mid to late 20’s man falling in lust/love with his pubescent sister, it is an incredibly good drama.  This series will keep you on the edge of the seat with tension as thick as a building and an ambiance to match.  This is a drama for the mature audience, mainly due to the context, but if you can put aside your inhibitions it will be well worth the watch.

 


            While this is not actually a romantic series it does have a very powerful central romance to it that involves the 3 main characters and the conflicted love triangle between them.  They spent all of their time together growing up until one of the two boys assaults the girl, which causes all three of them to fall away, harboring many things and not see each other for many years.  As adults they again come together and have to deal with lingering emotions and the unspeakable event that separated them.

            The romance is actually the main driver for this movie/OAV set and is quite riveting.  This is a series made for shonen crowd so there really aren’t any tear jerking moments and not a lot of in depth drama.  All the same the story is very well done and the twist is superb and the ending theme is quite powerful, it still gives me shivers to this day when I listen to it.




            This second TV series from, Rumiko Takahashi, is the only series of hers that ever had a closed ending to it.  The story revolves around a college student living in a rundown apartment complex who is struggling to not only get into college but once he’s in to stay there.  The rest of the apartments' residents take it upon themselves to harass him to no end.  He resigns himself to his fate and decides to leave the complex one day when they are stopped at the entrance by the arrival of their new manager, a beautiful young woman.  He is instantly smitten and rescinds his departure in order to remain in this young beauties presence as long as possible.  Now he must become the man he was never able to be, responsible, reliable and successful, in order to win the managers heart, yet another man stands in his way as her heart is already taken.

            This is my favorite romantic series, it is mature and well done, I was very sad to say good bye to these characters.  At times the issues between the main characters gets tedious and the same scenarios are done a number of times, but I think this is done more to express the idea that people will repeat the same mistakes over and over again.  There were many times I was either slightly in tears or almost there during this series, especially an episode dealing with a forgotten Christmas present.  The fact that this story is not open ended is also a major selling point, you don’t have to wonder what ever happened to the characters.


NANA

            This is the story of a helpless woman who has moved to Tokyo to be with her boyfriend.  On the way there she meets the polar opposite of her, but they share the same name.  When she decides to not live with her boyfriend the two women’s paths cross again and they end up roommates.  The helpless Nana must now become an adult and experiences realities she was never aware of with the mature Nana and her friends.  When Nana is dumped by her boyfriend she goes through a revolving list of guys she wants to be with.  When she has the chance to be with a famous musician her life changes in ways she doesn’t anticipate or expect.

            This is an interesting series that deals exclusively with the woman’s point of view.  The story has a slow burn to it and once the major drama sets in so does the tension.  There is a fair amount of comedy as well, but ultimately this is a drama dealing with growing up and losing your innocence.  The ending is actually kind of sad and lonely.



            This is probably the most non-romantic romance series I have seen; in fact the romance doesn’t even become the main focus until the very end of the series.  The rest of the time you fall in love with the main characters as they try to define their purposes in life and grow as adults.  That and there is a lot of really good classical music in this series as all of the characters attend a music college.

            These characters are incredibly loveable and the title character is probably one of the most enjoyable personalities I have ever seen.  All but the last 3 or so episodes barely touch upon the romantic aspect of the story, it just sits casually in the background, which is fine because it is such a fun ride to the end.  The last few episodes are when the drama steps up and the romance between the two main characters takes center stage.  The anime ends but the story does not, it was concluded in 2 other series’ where the romance mostly takes a back seat again.  There was also a live action drama released that covers what the anime does and continues the story as it does in the manga.  The live action is just as fun too.  The motley crew, of side characters, are also entertaining in this oddball story about growing and coming to terms with adulthood.

            

            This short series, which totals around 2 and a half hours of actual footage, is based off of raunchy manga.  The series itself is actually very sweet and endearing, if a bit out of the norm in delivery.  This is the story of a lonely marketing executive who ends up going on a date with a young aspiring voice actress.  Later that night, the voice actress loses her apartment to a fire and happens to live in the execs neighborhood.  Out of kindness he takes her in and in a moment of weakness they sleep together.  She leaves him a dear John letter and that is that, until she is cast as the voice of the new ad campaign he came up with.  They have to keep their past encounter a secret from each others boss to maintain the project, but as time goes on she ends up moving in with him due to having no where else to go.  He wants to have a relationship but to her it was a one-time thing.

            This is a very sweet and likable anime; I was a bit surprised when I read the manga, which is pretty blatant hentai.  The animation is top quality, but each episode is under 15 minutes in length and there are only 9 episodes.  There has to be something said about the quality of this series in that I was pretty sad to say goodbye to these characters after only such a short time together.  I continue to hope for more but that seems unlikely.  If you can find this anime, which has not left Japan, I suggest it you will not be wasting your time.




            The quiet and unassuming girl in school gets the attention of one of the most sought after boys.  When they start dating baggage from his past starts to interfere with his feelings for her and her uncertainty of her own qualities makes her question his love.

            This is a short sweet and simple story that deals with reality and realistic problems pretty well.  My biggest complaint is the artwork.  Otherwise it’s worth the time if you enjoy real life dramas.





            This anime based on a dating sim game is actually a bit mature and disturbing.  It starts off innocently enough about a shy high school romance between a girl and a guy.  It soon mutates into a spiraling mess of betrayals, jealousy and debauchery, ending more like an episode of Higurashi no Naku Koro ni.

            At first this is a very nice, quaint story about a shy girl and the lonely boy who falls in love with her, that then turns into something a little more stuck in reality.  Many anime tend to create sugar coated worlds were high school students are not sexually active, they are in this anime, but not graphically so.  The main focal point of this series is the main characters physical urges and his willingness to fulfill them in any way possible, regardless of the feelings of those involved.  I did enjoy this series, especially when it began to spiral out of control, the animation is top quality for a TV series even if the characters are stereotypical, and it is based off of dating sim games which all follow stereotypes.  It is also worth noting that the final episode of this series was preempted for a while due to the TV stations not wanting to upset anyone after a girl murdered her father with an ax in Kyoto, just a hint.




            This anime deals with a boy who, in the process of running away form his past, becomes completely enthralled with a coed and neighbor.  The girl is too busy with trying to be the best she can that she has no time for his uncertainty.  They become friends but he is not satisfied with that and numerous times confesses his love to her and is rejected numerous times.  There relationship fluctuates as they battle their own hang ups and misconceptions while also trying to adjust to life away from home.

            The manga continues the story even further and I continue to hope for a second season of the anime, but it looks futile.  It was hardest to say goodbye to these characters, which I had to do twice, once after I watched the anime then again when the manga ended.  The manga does end though which is very good since so many have open endings.  At first this series seems caught in the anime fantasy of innocent high school students.  Near the end it does start to pick up tones of realism, but as the story continues in the manga it becomes 100% realistic in the characters development and challenges.  The series improves over time in its story telling and situations, the creator definitely grew as time went on.



Tenchi Muyo In Love 2

            While the Tenchi Muyo series is arguably the grandfather of harem anime, and I have staunchly kept harem anime, to the best of my opinions, out of this list, I felt this movie should be listed.  Tenchi world aside, this movie stands out from everything else for 2 reasons.  The first is the very different art style and the second is the maturity of the story.  We once again have a different story involving Tenchi’s grandfather’s arrival to earth.  This time he comes with his lover, a sickly, bedridden woman.  She dies upon arrival and he buries her tree in honor of her.  Years later that tree suddenly awakens and using the last amount of its energy drags Tenchi into an alternate reality.  The two main contenders for his attention head off to search for him.  In the search they stumble upon a Tenchi who has aged a number of years and is a soft spoken introverted art student.  In all of their attempts to get his attention they are never successful but through their own willpower they track him down and figure out what is going on and confront the perpetrator.

            Until I watched The Girl Who Lept Through Time this was the top anime movie on my list.  The art is very calm and relaxing, the dialog and situations are very mature with only a small amount of humor.  The other thing about this bitter sweet movie is that it, in my opinion, answers the question as to who Tenchi will ultimately choose.  Even if you are unfamiliar with the franchise, this movie can stand on it’s own for the most part.  There isn’t any explanation to the background relationships between the 3 main characters for the unknowing viewer but this is inoculated enough from the rest of the Tenchi universe that it can work as a first experience.
 


            This short, glossy, high school romance TV series is about a girl and the neighbor boy whom she has been in love with since he left town many years before and how he comes back only to be different from her memories.  Now she has to deal with this image of her knight in shinning armor being the king of perverts while coming to grips with her own sugar coated memories.

            This was a decent romantic comedy, even though it was rote, predictable and stereotypical.  The drama was well done and some of the scenes were quite moving but all in all I didn’t gain much by watching this series aside from a few chuckles.  If you have some time to spare, the series is only 13 episodes, give it a whirl but don’t expect too much out of it.



Touch

            This 80’s anime is one of the most powerful romance anime made yet did not garner much attention outside of Japan.  This classic series follows the trials and tribulations of sexual awareness between 2 twin brothers and their neighbor/childhood friend.  The three have lived a blissful existence until emotions and feelings become more complicated with puberty.  They find themselves locked in a dangerous triangle which is even more compounded after a tragic event.  Now the remaining two must cope not only with their loss and guilt but with their future together.

            This is an old anime and is quite dated, but it is very powerful none the less.  It deals with very realistic problems and situations in the lives of these 3 friends.  There is a reason this was one of the most loved and watched anime in the 80’s.  The story telling is superb and the characters are well developed.  This series is hard to find, but it is out there and should be watched if you are a fan of the classic 80’s romantic stories, hell a fan of romances to begin with.




            This short OAV is by the same director as 5cm per Second and, while not as depressing, is a very sad story none the less.  It deals with two high school students on a future earth who have fallen in love with each other.  The girl joins the space corps and is soon whisked off planet to begin training as a pilot while the boy stays on earth.  While apart they keep in constant communication with each other by way of cell phone text messages.  Near the end of her training humanity has begun a war with an alien race in a distant part of the galaxy and she is rushed off to join the front lines.  While in transit she remains in contact with her love, but due to the distances between each other the time between the messages increases.  Not only does the distance increase but so does the age.  The girl may send a message a week after the last one, but due to the distance she has traveled the boy does not receive it for much longer.  When she reaches her destination and heads off to other distant parts, the boy is now a man, while she is not much older and the messages of love come further and further apart and have less impact on him as he has chosen to live a life separate from her, his old high school romance while she is out in the far reaches of space, still a love sick young adult.

            This is a very beautiful and haunting OAV and was my first experience with this director.  While it is not as depressing as 5cm per Second it is still an incredible downer.  On the other hand this one also has some pretty nice mecha combat sequences.  The artwork is high quality and the mood is very somber.  The physics aspect in the plot device is pretty unique, especially among romances, which almost never deal with science.  This is a sad story that can appeal to non-romance fans as well.




Conclusion

            In retrospect I would say my favorite romantic stories are the ones most attached to reality, the most realistic ones in terms of how the characters interact with each other and their circumstances.  Too much anime seems to shine this innocent light on adolescence in particular, which is pretty naïve and mostly filled with wishful thinking.  I think the majority of people who would normally be interested in a romantic story want it to be relatable and realistic, possibly even voyeuristic, not necessarily perverted though.  The tendency seems to be that many romances are geared towards the hardcore otaku that live in fantasy realms filled with nothing but plutonic love and wholesome intentions, where sexual relationships develop out of love instead of lust and everyone is as innocent and pure as a baby.

            Aside from realism I also, of course, yearn for excellent story telling and characters that are easily likeable.  Many times I have been sad to finish a series due to not seeing said characters again.  Sure it’s just a story, but Whinny the Pooh still exists and continues his adventures so no child has yet to have to say good bye to him.  Many of the plot devices and character flaws in romance stories share common themes through out the genre, which is not a bad thing, because they are taken from real life.  The subjects covered are usually relatable to everyone; insecurity, misunderstanding, regret, doubt or jealousy, to name a few.

            If a series can bring me to the brink of tears it is also well done, in my opinion.  In a lot of ways it is hard to make me emotional and if a movie of TV show can bring me to that level it has to be due to, in the least, a great delivery.  Anyone can put together a romance story, here’s the premise; guy likes girl, guy has to muster up courage to talk/confess to girl, guy has to win girls heart, guy fumbles, guy wins girl, the end.  Or, some even show the story after the relationship starts and the ups and downs the new couple has to go through.  I really like the ones that continue and show the relationship, too many stop when the boy and girl begin dating, I think the real story, and the best drama, is in maintaining that relationship after it has begun.

            There are some stories that sit outside of this convention, ones that deal with failure and misery.  In a fiction world where people always get the person they dream of the most it is very refreshing to see the opposite happen, especially if done well.

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